Showing posts with label body language. Show all posts
Showing posts with label body language. Show all posts

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Understanding Bunny Language

Understanding Your Bunny
Articles Shared From 3 Bunnies Rabbit Rescue.


This article contains a good list of common rabbit behaviours and advice on not punishing your bunny , so I must share. I have added a few pics to help illustrate :)
Watching Roxanne run around the apartments doing flips and kicks (known as a binky) is so darn cute and hilarious to watch.. and I know it means she is a happy girl :)
I will be posting my own care sheets from when I was breeding rabbits this week, so stay tuned.
    Binky = Happy Bunny :)
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Communicating With Your Bunny


Here is a listing of some of the most common rabbit behaviors that you can interpret:

  • Growling or snorting
  • This means "leave me alone"; it can also be accompanied by lunging or scratching to fend off potential attacks, so you should heed the warning. You may also discover that you just have a very vocal chatterbox, and you'll find out soon enough. Some bunnies are fairly vocal with grunts, snorts, whuffles, coos, and many other sounds that you might not expect, since other rabbits never make a sound. The vocal rabbits are usually just criticizing everything you do.
  • Low squealing
  • Most rabbits use this when they want to be put down and allowed to run free. It is also used for criticizing humans in general, such as how they are petting or approaching.
  • Loud squealing/screaming
  • This is an indication that the rabbit is either in extreme pain or great danger. If not in great danger, this means you need to get your bunny to the vet - it may be dying. (It is theorized that one of the reasons a dying rabbit may scream is simply to draw predators to finish the job and stop any suffering; it is not necessarily an indication that its death comes at great suffering).
  • Cooing (The "happy noise")
  • This is a sign that the rabbit is very happy, but is hard to describe - it sounds a little like cooing or soft grunting, but without aggression. You can hear an example of a happy noise made by a bunny named Simon here. (Click on the image of musical notes) (NOTE: this recording is now included in a natural museum in England) (NOTE: if you play this sound and your bunnies hear it, they may go nuts with glee)
  • Tooth gnashing/purring
  • Rabbits purr by grinding their teeth softly (usually a series of soft rubbing sounds that are fairly subtle).
  • Grinding Teeth
  • When a rabbit grinds its teeth in a crunching fashion, this is an indication that it is in pain, and you should take your rabbit to the vet immediately for treatment.
  • Nosebonks
  • This is a greeting, show of approval, or request for attention
  • Slow blinks
  • This is how a rabbit smiles
  • Binkies (mid-air flips)
  • Also called a "happy dance", rabbits do this to express sheer joy. Sometimes a binky takes the form of a bunny jumping up, kicking out it's legs, and spinning around. Sometimes it's a simple hop upwards. Sometimes it's a full-body wiggle with the upper paws off the ground (almost like a dog shaking off water). Maybe all you'll see is a subtle butt-wiggle. Whatever form it takes, there's no mistaking that it is the act of a happy bunny. 
  • Flops onto its side
  • This is a sign of pure contentment and happiness with his surroundings, and is quite an amusing and endearing sight. Usually a flop is followed by a nap, unless the humans find it so irresistible that they must then pet the bunny, preventing the nap.
  • Chinning
  • Both male and female rabbits will mark their territory this way, and there are scent glands under the chin for scent-marking in this manner. This can also mean "I will eat you later".
  • Thumping
  • This is how rabbits communicate danger to other rabbits, and also annoyance with their humans. Please understand that one of the things the bunny may be annoyed at is the lack of attention from humans - thumping is often a cry for attention from bunnies that don't see their humans that much. Thumping is done by raising a hind foot and slamming it down on the ground or floor.
  • Licking
  • Rabbits lick their humans as a show of affection, in much the same way a dog does. Sometimes this licking is accompanied by gentle biting (chewing, actually) which is a form of social grooming - this should not be confused with aggressive biting!! (Note: not all rabbits lick - if your rabbit doesn't lick you, it doesn't mean he doesn't like you, just that he's not a licker).
  • Circling
  • Circling is a form of courting behavior, but it also means your rabbit wants a treat or some attention, or simply that he's excited because he knows a treat is coming.
  • Racing around
  • Your bunny is enjoying his freedom and letting off steam.
  • Boxing
  • Your bunny is annoyed with you and you should leave him alone. This is the quintessential "rabbit punch" - a one=two swipe at you, or perhaps both paws at the same time.
  • Lunging
  • Some bunnies will lunge at you, particularly if they are in their cages. This kind of behavior is also known as "cage protectiveness" and usually develops when a bunny has been abused and spent most of his life in a cage, so because it's the only thing he considers his own property, he will defend it and may also try to tell you that he doesn't want to have contact with you (probably due to prior abuse that has instilled fear in him). If you want to try to get the bunny past these fears is to simply hang out very close by (such as lay on the floor right next to the bunny's cage, speak gently to him, and in general be a part of his surroundings without being either a threat or an intruder. After a while he should get more comfortable with you and become more friendly AND take more advantage of his freedom to wander around when given exercise time.
  • Nipping
  • Bunnies bite for numerous reasons, and it doesn't necessarily indicate aggression. Some bunnies will bite to say "you're in my way", or to say "stop what you're doing". They may even try to use their teeth to push your hand out of the way (another way of them telling you to leave them alone). There is a wide range of behaviors that can all fit the category of nipping - anything from gently touching their teeth on your hand (most likely if you're petting them) to an all-out bite that goes through the skin and digs deep into the muscle tissue - if you get that kind of bite, you clearly have a bunny that is either extremely afraid or in extreme pain.
  • Periscoping (standing up on hind legs)
  • Rabbits stand up like this to get a better view of things (such as, what is on a coffee table, because there might be treats up there). The will also do this to beg for treats.
  • Bouncing
  • Besides doing this as part of playtime, if you're lucky enough to have free range rabbits that can get on your bed, you may find this behavior at 4:30 AM - we've found that this invariably means there's no more food and you need to get up and feed them. Other meanings of such behavior are meant to get your attention - perhaps your bunnies want attention, or they're just mischievous. They may even be inviting you to a game of "hide and seek" - if so, you've already lost.
    Periscope - Hmmm what's that up there?
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Your rabbit is talking to you, and wondering why you don't understand!
Written By  David L. Fisher


Rabbits are very gentle creatures unless pushed past their breaking point. They are also very delicate animals, both physically and emotionally, so if you have a bunny, you need to try to understand what he/she is trying to tell you - they do communicate, it just has a lot of subtlety.

Rabbits are prey animals, so they are quiet. They are not silent, however, and if you listen carefully, you may hear vocalizations - this is your rabbit talking to you, and thinking that you understand. (Editor's note: your humble webmaster took years to figure out that his alpha female was criticizing the way she was being touched during petting sessions, and he finally figured it out and got it right, and now the alpha female has become quite the chatterbox about every topic under the sun).
They do a lot of communicating with each other without making sounds that will attract predators. This includes body language, thumping, slow blinking of the eyes, and physical contact. Communicating with your rabbit is very different from communicating with a dog or cat (which are both predators). If you are new to bunnies, please read this page.
Note: Although it is common for a bunny to be quiet in general, some bunnies (especially those comfortable around humans) are quite vocal - using grunts and snorts and huffs and whuffles (and all the other words for their utterances), some bunnies can be chatterboxes. If you have a chatterbox, try to clear your mind and understand what they're saying - you're bunny is talking to you, so it's only polite to listen). The quiet ones also talk to you, but listening to them is an art unto itself.
Rabbits are very social animals, and will appreciate living with other rabbits, as long as the other rabbits are not threats. Many rabbits do quite well with mates (male-female bonds are usually the easiest to achieve, but they should obviously be spayed/neutered first!), and will have much happier and more fulfilling lives. Every once in a while, a rabbit will express an interest in being an only rabbit (where their humans can give all of their attention to them) so usually, "bunny dating" is a good idea to see if two rabbits will get along. Please see the bonding page for information on successfully finding your bunny a friend.
Your relationship with your rabbit is based on trust. If you break that trust by mistreating the rabbit or failing to provide regular positive feedback, it will set your relationship back almost to the beginning. Once you have gained the trust of your rabbit you will really see what a wonderful animal it truly is.
Rabbits are often misunderstood by owners who know little about rabbit care, and invariably the rabbit ends up on the losing end of the deal. Many rabbits that wind up in shelters or set loose are simply misunderstood by their owners.Spraying is one unfortunate example of this. Sometimes people don't understand their rabbit's behavior and surrender it to a shelter because they don't know enough about their rabbit. Please take the time to understand a rabbit's unique behavior and you will see why it is the 3rd most popular pet in the U.S.
Other behaviors that are often misinterpreted by the uninitiated are nipping/light biting and boxing/clawing. Rabbits will often use their teeth to gently bite as a way of sending a message or of getting a grip on another rabbit as a show of dominance. Often these bites don't hurt that much but they can take you by surprise and it does take some getting used to. Sometimes rabbits will also give "hickeys" as a show of affection. Rabbits will also box (lunging with claws swinging) as a way to defend themselves if they are frightened. This should not be confused as aggressive behavior - in this case the rabbit is trying to push you away. Even after you are well-bonded with your rabbit, you may find it boxing as a way of showing frustration (such as if you are slow in getting a treat).
A note on destructive or messy behavior:
I shouldn't need to point this out, but rabbits do share something in common with dogs and cats - they're animals, and they behave like animals. They make messes, they chew things up, and can generally bring about a lot of damage if they are very bored, lack the proper distractions, or feel neglected. Dogs chew up people's shoes and and pee on the carpet, and they still enjoy their same status in the pack. Cats sharpen their claws on the furniture and leave little squishy presents sometimes, and they keep their status in the family. Rabbits chew on wires (because they think they're chewing vines) and the next thing you know, the poor things are living the rest of their lives caged, perhaps even banished to outdoor hutches where they may or may not be completely forgotten about. When we used to keep track of all of the times rabbits made it into the news, besides outright cruelty, we read mostly horror stories about neglect. Understand your bunny, give him the playtime and toys and attention to keep him occupied, and you will enjoy a wonder relationship with your rabbit.


A note on punishment and animals: 

You can't punish animals - it simply won't work. They don't understand it - they don't link their behavior with the punishment. If you try to punish an animal, all that happens is you make the animal unhappy, and it may link its unhappiness to you, which is totally counterproductive. Punishment will also break the trust you've worked to develop. You should completely abandon the idea of punishing your pet unless your goal is an unhappy bunny that doesn't trust you. For the same reasons, you shouldn't yell at him. He's a bunny, not a human, and he won't create the cause/effect connection - he lives much more "in the moment", and all he'll understand is that suddenly you're not being nice to him.

There are two things you should be doing to try to accomplish your goals of discouraging bad behavior - one is positive reinforcement when you get the behavior you want. The other is, if you catch your bunny IN THE ACT of doing something you don't want him doing, then you can interrupt the behavioral pattern - clap your hands, make a thump sound on the floor with your hand or foot, say "no, (bunny's name), no" (but DO NOT YELL at him). The idea is to distract him for long enough that he forgets what he was up to and finds something else to do. If necessary, gently shoo him away from whatever he's doing, but don't use force or anger. It takes time, but eventually he'll learn that certain behaviors get rewarded and others get interrupted, and hopefully he'll seek the rewards and not the distractions and interference. You have to be gentle about this, or you'll damage the bond you've built with him.
Punishing animals just won't work, and anyone who tells you otherwise is giving you very bad advice. I can't stress this enough. I also think it's doubly important when dealing with prey animals to NOT exploit fear as a method of training, or you'll wind up with a very stressed-out pet.
One thing to keep in mind: rabbits will always do rabbity things.
Licking is a sign of affection :)
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Interesting Facts
Here are some other interesting things about rabbits that you should know:
  • Rabbits will always do rabbitty things
  • Rabbits have a sense of humor
  • Rabbits smile
  • Rabbits understand death and will mourn the loss of a mate
  • Rabbits are easily litterbox trained
  • Rabbits groom themselves more than cats and are fastidiously clean (unless having health problems for which you should seek veterinary help immediately)
  • Rabbits are mischievous, and many like to tip things over, like drinks - this is fun to them, so place your drinks accordingly
  • Always try to have a sense of humor about the troubles your rabbit causes you - they're rather bright creatures and you are probably being given a bigger message
  • Fear can cause a rabbit to have a heart attack
  • Rabbits live in complex social groups with their own hierarchies and bond groupings
  • Rabbits need toys and playtime distractions to keep their minds busy
  • Rabbits can be taught an unlimited vocabulary of words (not really voice commands) *we have personally seen rabbits who knew the names of all of their foods and could express preference*
  • Rabbits enjoy playing with other rabbits, other pets, and humans
  • Rabbits share a lot of nonverbal communication with other rabbits and other pets
  • Punishment doesn't work with animals
  • When hormones have subsided (after spay/neuter), mounting behavior is an expression of dominance
  • When a rabbit kicks up its legs while running, or hops up and kicks out and perhaps lands in a different direction, it is called a "binky" and is a sign of pure joy
  • When a rabbit flicks its feet at you when running away from you, it is a sign of rejection (he is trying to kick dirt up at you) because you have annoyed him somehow.
  • When a rabbit flops onto its side, it is a sign of contentment and happiness, and is usually the precursor to a nap (unless you decide that it's so cute that you have to pet your bunny)
  • Nosebonks are a sign of approval and a greeting, and sometimes a request for attention
  • Rabbits nip and bite in many different ways, usually not to hurt but to communicate - you must learn to interpret what your rabbit is telling you - it could be anything from "I love you" to "you're hurting me" to "you're in my way"
  • A rabbit that sits right against you while grooming himself is showing you approval and trust; he is vulnerable yet drawing security from the contact with you - make no sudden movements and this will enhance your rabbit's trust and desire to have contact with you
  • Rabbits lick as a show of affection
  • Circling behavior (ie, running circles around your feet) is a bid for attention and is also courting behavior
  • A rabbit sitting hunched over and not moving is in distress and should be see by a vet immediately.
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Flop = I'm pretty chilled and happy hanging here. I might have a snooze :)

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Become a human LIE detector




As I was sitting in bed watching the TV Show - 'Lie to Me' I started to think about how many times I wish that I had the ability to read someones expressions to determine if they are being untruthful. This is mostly because I seem to have been lied to a lot during my life and in relationships and probably somewhat enjoy the feeling of catching someone out in a lie, even though the truth usually does hurt.

I decided to do some research into the signs, body language & micro expressions that can determine if someone is lying to you and I share them with you in this blog post.

Warning: Sometimes Ignorance is bliss; after gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you.

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VIDEO with language expert - Judi James

When you're in a marriage or a committed relationship, havent you always wanted to play detective and know exactly when your partner is lying to you? In this youtube feature, body language expert Judi James spills the beans on how you can tell if someone is lying to you.

Here are the signs to watch out for. First, check on the persons body movement. Little or no body movement when combined with an inability to maintain eye contact can signify lying. On the other hand, exaggerated body movements and trying to maintain more eye contact can also mean that your partner is lying.

Remember that lying causes stress so other body movements like swallowing, faster blinking or feet shuffling may mean that your partner is hiding something from you. Replicating the innocence of childhood when a person looks away at the point of lying is also a dead giveaway.

Perhaps one of the most interesting points that the body language expert in the video have is the eyeball movement. This is a way for a person to stimulate part of the brain. When your partner looks to the left, he or she is recording memories which signifies honesty. Looking towards the right is a way to stimulate the imagination, so your partner is most probably lying. Other warning signs to watch out for include the Pinocchio effect when a person touches or scratches the nose when lying and covering the mouth or face.

All in all, the video is extremely helpful for those who would like to learn more about how they can read a persons body language and tell when someone is lying to them or not which are great clues if you want to know if your partner is cheating.

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The 7 Common Signs of Lying

1.No eye contact. Generally, if someone is lying they will not look you in the eye, at least during a certain part of the conversation. Normally, people make eye contact for at least half of a conversation, so anything less than this could be suspicious. One caveat: there are some people who will take great pains to make eye contact with you even if they're lying, simply to make you think they're not. They may turn their head or body away.

2. Change in voice. A change in the pitch of a person's tone, or a lot of stammering (umm, ah), or throat clearing could indicate a lie.

3.Unusual body language. If a person taps their foot a lot, fidgets with their hands, raises their shoulders, turns away from you or brings their hand to their face (to touch their chin or nose, etc.) -- in other words, if they act nervous or uncomfortable -- it could mean they're telling a lie. Also watch out for blushing (or becoming pale) and increased blinking.

4.Something sounds fishy. Making statements that contradict each other, are inconsistent or don't sound quite right are usually part of a lie.

5.Overly defensive. Sometimes when a person is lying they will become extremely defensive, refusing to answer any questions and even accusing you of lying. This may mean they have something to hide.

6.Changes subject easily. If someone is lying and you change the subject, chances are high that they'll go right along with it and become more relaxed. A person telling the truth, however, will likely ask why you changed the subject and want to go back to it.

7.Humor or sarcasm. A guilty person will often try to change the subject using humor or sarcasm.

Of course, no one behavior can tell for sure whether or not someone is telling the truth or lying. While you should trust your instinct, if you're not sure it's best to try to get some evidence to back up your accusation. Rather than relying on a specific behavior, catching a liar in the act is best done by watching their normal behaviors. When those behaviors suddenly change, that's when a lie has likely been told.

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VIDEO: Micro Expressions - The experiment

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What are Micro Expressions?

A micro expression is a momentary involuntary facial expression -- that people unconsciously display when they are hiding an emotion. They are quick & intense expressions of concealed emotion.

The main points to remember are that micro expressions are:

Brief - Micro expressions can appear then disappear off the face in a fraction of a second. In other words micro-expressions occur so quickly, that most people don't even notice them.

Involuntary - A micro expression is caused by involuntary movements in facial muscles. (See the fake-smile diagram). Most people cannot control these involuntary muscles which are affected by their emotions.

Micro Expressions are generally grouped into seven universal emotions:
anger, disgust, fear, sadness, happiness, surprise, and contempt
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Tim Roth plays Dr. Cal Lightman, the world’s leading deception expert, on ‘Lie to Me.’ He oversees The Lightman Group, a private agency hired to expose the truth behind the lies.

Below are diagrams of these seven universal micro-expressions as discussed above that Lightman looks for:







Micro Expressions betray us when we lie. We can try to cover our feelings with fake smiles, but involuntary face muscles reveal this hidden emotions. Seeing is easier, watch this short video:


Paul Ekman and his research is the inspiration for the TV series 'Lie to Me'.

Important to remember:

* Micro-expressions can also reveal emotions that are unconscious or only partially related to whatever is being talk about. In other words, just because someone says "that's awesome!" and flashes a brief micro-expression of contempt ... doesn't necessarily mean they are lying about their feelings.... just that there is something about the subject that "bugs" them (and they may not even know it bothers them).

So, you show your friend Sarah a picture of your new dog. She looks at you and says "wow, really cute", but you catch a micro-expression glimpse of "disgust". I believe it would be presumptuous to take this as a sign that Sarah thinks your puppy is ugly. She may have been bit by a dog in the past, and that emotion briefly flashed across her face when she looked at the pic of your dog.

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Emotional Gestures & Contradiction

Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would naturally, then stops suddenly.

Timing is off between emotions gestures/expressions and words. Example: Someone says "I love it!" when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made.

Gestures/expressions don’t match the verbal statement, such as frowning when saying “I love you.”

Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc.

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FAKING EMOTIONS ?

FORCED SMILE:

Usually used out of politeness... People who put on a smile only use the muscles around the mouth. But the top half of their face remains virtually unchanged. Their smile is also less likely to be showing their teeth. This smile could mean the person is not telling the whole truth.

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GENUINE SMILE:
A genuine smile involves the whole face including the eyes… More than just the mouth, many facial muscles are in action. The most visible is the tightening around the eyes. This action around the eyes is extremely difficult to fake and is the main signal you want to look at if you think somebody might not be telling you their real feelings.
Do not fake a smile. Research shows that a large majority of people unconsciously recognise the sincerity of your smile simply looking at the top half of your face.

Which face is the forced smile?

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EYE MOVEMENTS

The Eyes are called the "window of the soul" for a reason, the eyes don't reveal everything… but they are very expressive!

The way a person looks at someone reveals a lot… and the intensity and direction of their stare can reflect a person's thoughts.

Visual Accessing Cues:

When asked a question a "normally organised" right-handed person looks (from your viewpoint, looking at them):

Up and to the Left
Indicates: Visually Constructed Images (Vc)
If you asked someone to "Imagine a purple buffalo", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Visually Constructed" a purple buffalo in their mind.

Up and to the Right
Indicates: Visually Remembered Images (Vr)

If you asked someone to "What color was the first house you lived in?", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Visually Remembered" the color of their childhood home.

To the Left
Indicates: Auditory Constructed (Ac)

If you asked someone to "Try and create the highest the sound of the pitch possible in your head", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Auditorily Constructed" this this sound that they have never heard of.

To the Right
Indicates: Auditory Remembered (Ar)

If you asked someone to "Remember what their mother's voice sounds like ", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Auditorily Remembered " this sound.

Down and to the Left
Indicates: Feeling / Kinesthetic (F)
If you asked someone to "Can you remember the smell of a campfire? ", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they used recalled a smell, feeling, or taste.

Down and To the Right
Indicates: Auditory Digital / Internal Dialog (Ai)

This is the direction of someone eyes as they "talk to themselves".

Example of how this works: Let's say your child ask's you for a cookie, and you ask them "well, what did your mother say?" As they reply "Mom said... yes." they look to the left. This would indicate a made up answer as their eyes are showing a "constructed image or sound. Looking to the right would indicated a "remembered" voice or image, and thus would be telling the truth.

Remember:
* Looking straight ahead or with eyes that are defocused/unmoving is also considered a sign of visual accessing.

* A typical left-handed person would have the opposite meanings for their eye-directions.

* As with other signs of lying, you should first establish and understand a persons base-behavior before concluding they are lying by the direction of their eyes.



What Can Their Pupils Reveal?

- Wet eyes
--> crying, painful memory, emotional

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Excessive blinking
--> showing romantic interest (if their pupil is dilated)
--> sign of stress
--> could be lying

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Enlarged pupils
--> if in broad light, the person is either experiencing deep satisfaction, or is interested in you
--> in darker environments, it is a natural physical reaction

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Widened pupils / eyes
--> seeing something pleasant - this a sign professional poker players look out for as a giveaway that another player may have a good hand…


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MORE BODY LANGUAGE

HANDS

- Hiding their hands
--> not inclined to communicate
--> secretive, possibly lying

- Touching your face while kissing
--> genuine romantic interest, slow seduction

- Open hand wave
--> inviting, welcoming

- Thumbs
--> superiority
When someone has their hands are in the pockets, leaving the thumbs out, it shows confidence, they probably feel superior.

ARMS

- By the side and away from the body
--> confident, strong

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Closed, crossed
--> uninviting
--> protective

LEGS

- Crossed over the knee or at the ankle
--> relaxed, but not completetly at ease

Ankle crossing over the knee (mainly men)

--> confidence, arrogance or assertiveness


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VIDEO: How to Read Body Language : How to Tell if Someone is Lying with Body Language

Learn how to tell if someone is lying by their body language and how to read other body language in this free video on body language communication skills. Expert: Michelle Roth Bio: Dr. Michelle Roth is licensed Psychologist and relationship expert. Filmmaker: Nili Nathan



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Other Signs a Person is lying

• A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.

• A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, “Did you eat the last cookie?” The liar answers, “No, I did not eat the last cookie.”

•A statement with a contraction is more likely to be truthful: “ I didn't do it” instead of “I did not do it”

• Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They imply answers instead of denying something directly.

• The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you... they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation.

• A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonous tone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement.

• Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax and grammar may be off. In other
words, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized.

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Remember:

* Look for signs that could prove that you’re wrong rather than the person is wrong. You play the “devil’s advocate” if you will. In fact, research shows that you’re more likely to correctly detect honesty than lies.

* Dishonest people who try to use body language to manipulate or cheat others usualy fail. Because their own uncontrollable body language signals give them away at some point and anyone easily catches their game.

On the other hand, if you are honest, trustworthy, and respectful, your in-depth understanding of body language naturally makes you a confident and influential communicator - who can easily connect with people at a deep level.

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RELATED & MORE IN-DEPTH INFORMATION :

How To Detect Lies

Micro Expressions & Lying

Eye Movement & Lying

Body Language Signals

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coming soon : Body Language - The Signs of Attraction